You’re that Special Someone that makes me want to give it!!!

 

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Only give out what you would like to receive back for this is one of the most fundamental Universal Laws.           Paulette De-Har

These are the lyrics in the song titled The Giver (Reprise) by Duke Dumont.

 

Although we never came forward into this Physical life for sameness and for everything to be exactly as we are wanting…. We did come to have different experiences and to learn how to control and deliberately focus our thoughts and feelings to create the life we’re really wanting. To feel the excitement of moving towards something and achieving a goal we have set down for ourselves. That truth may not have us jumping for joy, especially if we feel we have not received nearly as much as we’ve wanted to in our lives so far.

When dealing with others, this is always a balance of giving and taking, for this is the way of this Physical world we live in. The question is, are we aware of the thoughts and emotions we are sending out and therefore what we are receiving back vibrationally???

When we have any type of interaction with any other we are always giving and receiving something vibrationally from each other whether we are aware of it or not. Good feeling positive interactions indicate the participants are in a similar general vibrational place in regard to whatever they are talking about and are both giving out good positive thoughts and emotions to each other. Not good feeling negative interactions indicate participants are also in a similar vibrational place but are giving out negative thoughts and emotions to the other and are probably having a less than enjoyable time……Unless of course, we have come to enjoy negative, not nice communication with others??? (That’s a whole different post!!!)

Obviously most love good feeling, happy, enjoyable interactions, but even when we sit in a very good feeling General Vibrational Place most of the time, we will still come up against unwanted interactions with others for many different reasons. Whatever those reasons may be, the best action we can take when faced with someone giving or trying to pass their negative energy onto us is to resist giving it back.
This can be hard to achieve and almost goes against the Laws of the Universe of “One will receive back what one has given out,” but can be achieved when we are focused and believing in our ability to react calmly and positively or to walk away rather than engage in a way that is not consistent with who we really are.

This by no means is a reason to let people walk all over us and doesn’t mean we should not be assertive and stand up for ourselves when we feel the need too, but it is a very good idea to do it from a positive vibrational place. Whether we speak up in such circumstances will depend on what we feel is best at the time, and will usually be an action that we believe will help us to feel better.

If we do react negatively, it’s easy to give the excuse “well they deserved it,” and for sure that’s often true, but people give out this not niceness because of resistance that’s within them, resistance that has often been received from others and through their own focus on what is not wanted without knowing they have the ability to remove it by making an effort to feel better and by focusing on what they are wanting rather than focusing and barking at everything they are not wanting. When resistance in the form of negative beliefs, thoughts and feelings are not moved into better feeling places through our own deliberate effort and focus, it’s only a matter of time before the need to pass that resistance onto others happens.

This is an attempt to remove the heaviness that comes with unresolved negative energy within the mind and body but this can never truly work because even if one does feel better after doing this, we will again receive back this negative energy as the Law of Attraction sends us matching vibrational signals to what we’ve sent out in the form of people, places and events.

So the moral of the story is….

~ Resist letting others pass their negative thoughts and emotions on by not responding back in the same manner as them. If we do lash out, we have allowed our vibration and how we feel to be dictated by someone else…..And that’s not good.
~ If we feel the need to respond, take a minute if possible to get into the best feeling place we have access too at that time.
~ Walk away rather than give back more negative energy and feel great for exercising deliberate power over how you feel and how you have reacted under trying circumstances.                                                                                                    ~And above all other things…..Make an effort to think, speak and act more about what you are wanting rather than what you are not wanting, and treat others in a way you yourself would like to be treated…..And all good things must eventually follow!!!

And so they will…..

Does the truth really hurt…???

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Well, whether or not the truth hurts, depends entirely on where you are in relation to the truth.
Let’s think about that for a moment…if we are told something that sits a long way from where our experiences and beliefs are, even if it is the truth, we often do not feel good about hearing such things.
There may be hundreds of reasons why the truth does not feel good when we hear it, but often it’s just a knee-jerk reaction to something we have never heard or considered before because not many like the unknown, because, it’s well, unknown…
And why do most of us dislike the unknown?
For more reasons than I could say, but they all come down to the same core reason, and that is fear.
Fear is an extremely strong negative emotion and I would never encourage anyone to take any action from this extremely not good feeling place, but I would definitely encourage movement into a better feeling place regarding whatever it is we are fearing, and when we are feeling better and have maintained our improved vibrational place for some time, that is when taking action may be a good idea, if that’s what we’re wanting to do.

So just as a mighty oak tree once came from a tiny seed, something just as great can come from the truths we are receiving through the living of our own life, but we must be open to receiving the benefit these truths hold for us, otherwise even when they are right in front of us, we do not see them.
Deep within us, we know the truth when we hear it, and we are being guided towards the truth about how life is really working by the Non-Physical part of us that has remained in the Non-Physical realm and is communicating with us through our emotions, but it can be unsettling when the physical part of us doesn’t like the truths that are being shown or presented.
It’s a bit like an internal struggle within ourselves, and the struggle, or better said misalignment, is between the Physical here and now part of us and the Non-Physical part of us. The Non-Physical part of us always knows the truth about life and all things, that is why we know the truth when we hear it, even though the physical part of us may not be understanding or comprehending what it is we are really experiencing.
If we are a long way away from the truth, we often don’t like it because by taking these truths on board it means major changes will be on the horizon, for when you learn anything new this changes your perspective on many things which means your thoughts and feelings ( vibration ) on many subjects will be different from what it previously was.
So you will be emitting a different ( hopefully improved ) vibrational signal that the Law of Attraction is constantly and consistently responding in-kind to by reflecting back to you with physical manifestations, that which you have been emitting through your focused thoughts and emotions.( vibration )
Now that sounds wonderful doesn’t it, ( I hope it does, but maybe not? ) for as our vibrations ( thoughts and feelings ) improve and we maintain that improved feeling place over time, we should be noticing an improvement in our physical manifestations.
Although this is definitely true, there is a period of time, a transition period if you like, where some of our thoughts are still focused on our old beliefs and perspectives and some of our thoughts are moving into our new and improved beliefs.
This often causes a turbulent time where manifestations may be “all over the place” with some being greatly improved and feeling wonderful and others that are not feeling so good and are bringing up resistance circumstances for us to clear so we can continue our journey into more of the things we’re wanting to experience.
Hey, maybe that’s where the saying “the truth hurts” comes from?
It’s a definite possibility don’t you think!!
But as we continue down the road of our new and improved thoughts and feelings, ( vibrations ) and we work through past resistant patterns of thought,
( old beliefs that are not consistent with the “Laws of the Universe” ) there is only one place this can take us……
And that’s into more awesome life experiences, for anything that has truth at its core, is always an improvement from that which is not truth…

And so it is….