A blessing in disguise!!!

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This is another way of saying….When we are knowing how this Universe and the Law of Attraction is working in our lives, we now understanding that everything that turns up in our physical reality, especially unwanted circumstances, are attracted to us through our own focus and helps us to move more fully into that which we’re wanting to experience in our lives. This statement especially relates to unwanted circumstances as being a blessing in disguise, because things we’re wanting that turn up aren’t disguised at all.

Although this is true, sometimes we don’t notice the small positive things that turn up because we’re strongly focused on the bigger circumstances were wanting to experience. Of course it’s good to be focused on what we’re wanting to experience in a good positive feeling way, but being purely focused on our end result in exclusion to anything else can somewhat blind us to the good that’s currently in our lives. Even the smallest wanted circumstance that manifests is worthy of taking note of, focusing on and appreciating because as the Law of Attraction responds to our good feelings and thoughts of appreciation, we create even more wanted circumstances in our future experience….And let’s not also forget, feeling good is feeling good!!!

Sometimes when we focus solely on the end result we’re wanting, even if we are positively focused, there’s often a vibration within us about the fact that what we’re wanting hasn’t materialised yet, especially if it’s something we’ve been working on for a long time. It can be a bit tricky to ignore the fact something we’ve desperately wanted hasn’t yet turned up, and depending on how strong this vibration within us is, it may prevent what we’re wanting from manifesting or our results may be a slightly mixed bag of wanted and unwanted circumstances.

So the moral of the story is….

~ Although it’s very important to improve our thought and cultivate our belief about the circumstances we’d like to unfold in our future experiences, it’s equally important to  focus on the smaller wanted details that are manifesting right now. This relaxes our focus into a better feeling place as it’s almost impossible to focus strongly on the good that’s around us now….And then be annoyed that this or that hasn’t turned up yet!!!

~ We all love it when things we want happen, but often it’s the unwanted circumstances that turn up in our experience that propel us forward in the direction we’re really wanting to go. Especially once we’ve released the resistant thoughts that attracted the unwanted circumstances in the first place.

~ Unwanted circumstances are never punishment but just a natural consequence of the creative power that’s within us all. This lets us know where our thoughts are in relation to what’s manifested, with positive good feeling thoughts attracting wanted circumstances and negative thoughts attracting unwanted circumstances.

~ When we start to understand how we create our experience and what unwanted circumstances really are, (A blessing in Disguise!!!) It makes it much easier to move through negative circumstances in a positive way, releasing resistance and moving  into a better feeling, higher vibrational place…..And that’s very good news!!!

And so it is….

Why do we sweat the small stuff???

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There is always an underlined reason for anything that shows up in our experience. Dealing with                     things when they are small can prevent a bigger problem later down the road.                                                                                    Paulette De-Har

Usually, the more important a subject is to us, the more likely we are to move it into a better vibrational feeling place. Whereas with less important subjects, the negative emotions we may be feeling are less intense in strength and duration, and is something many are prepared to live with. Most will not make an effort to move unwanted negative emotions into a better feeling vibrational place until they feel forced to do so as the increased intensity of their emotions gain enough momentum to produce matching unwanted manifestations reflecting where our often long-held and recent vibrational place has been.

Even if we don’t give these seemingly less important subjects that much attention, they are pulsing within our vibrational energetic body emitting a vibrational signal that the Law of Attraction is responding in-kind too. With time and focus we will experience physical manifestations that are a vibrational match to our dominant thoughts and feelings regarding all the subjects we spend time contemplating.

It’s only natural we would make more of an effort to feel better about subjects that are more important to us, but if we don’t also make some effort to move the lesser subjects into better feeling vibrational places, our increased negative emotion attracts stronger circumstances highlighting what we’ve got going on. This gives us the opportunity to move our thoughts and feelings positively by dealing with whatever has manifested in a positive way. Often physical manifestations are required for us to take notice of something within us that we may or may not have been aware of. As you can imagine, it is much easier to disregard and live with negative emotions than it is a negative physical manifestation we’re experiencing.

When we’re making positive progress on moving important subjects into better vibrational places, this has a positive effect on our General Vibrational Place. This gentle work we do to feel better usually raises all subjects to a higher vibrational level with the vibrations of less important subjects also being raised without consciously having to give them much thought. We may notice over time these lesser subjects feel much better than they previously did without actively doing anything. But of course we did do something, the improvement is created and a positive side effect of moving subjects that are more important to us.

Another consequence we may notice happens as we start making an effort to feel better is a greater degree of sensitivity to our negative emotions as we become accustomed to being in a better feeling, higher vibrational place. This causes what negative emotion we do feel to feel stronger than it may have previously. Although initially this may not sound that good, in the long-term it’s a very positive attribute that helps us to move subjects more quickly into a better vibrational place that if maintained attracts more wanted circumstances. I agree that stronger feeling negative emotions don’t feel good, but on the plus side we’re more likely to move these subjects into higher vibrational places before we experience the full physical manifestations of our previously not good feeling emotions….And that’s a very good thing!!!

So the moral of the story is….

~ Many less important subjects are improved without giving conscious thought to them, but we may also notice we become very sensitive to our negative emotions causing us to move unwanted emotions more quickly into better feeling places before we attract and experience negative manifestations from them.
~ As we learn more about how we create our lives through our focused thoughts and feelings, our vibration, its common to experiences more emotional highs and lows than we normally do.
~ Our emotional highs are from all the subjects we’ve made an effort to improve that have attracted more wanted circumstances, whereas the lows are resistance that turns-up giving us the opportunity to release our negative thoughts and feelings so we can experience more of what we’re wanting.
~ When we initially start improving our thoughts and feelings, our experience can be a bit up and down feeling like a roller coaster ride until we’ve moved many not good feeling subjects we’ve had into better vibrational places, and as we continuing doing this our experience greatly improves….

But don’t take my word for it, for each of us holds the power and knowledge within us of how this life works and the best current path to take that will move us into more of what we’re wanting to experience, and when we seek it consistently with a pure heart, it cannot help but be found….

And so it is….

All emotional states….Are a temporary state of being!!!

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Although this is a truthful statement, as always nothing is completely black or white, but includes many shades of grey especially when it comes to our physical experience on this planet.
This statement speaks to the truth that we have control over the emotions we feel as they come in response to the thoughts we think, and when we have mastered the thoughts we will allow ourselves to think through the power of our focused mind, we then have the ability to be the deliberate creator and producer of the emotions we’re wanting to experience rather than purely a reactor to what happens around us with little or no conscious control over what we think and how we feel.

As we think any thoughts and hold them in our mind for a short period of time, the Law of Attraction adds power to those thoughts making it much easier for us to think similar thoughts on whatever subject we’re giving our attention to at that moment. The accumulative effect of this over experiences and time is very strong and can be why even when we’re making an effort to improve our thoughts, we easily slip back into the well established vibrational groove (Ooooooh, that’s cool, “Vibrational Groove.” Hehehe….) we’re most commonly at, our General Vibrational Place.

Ultimately we do have power over the thoughts we think and how we feel, but when we’re trying to improve our thoughts on a subject we’ve felt a certain way about for a long time, it’s not the easiest and quickest thing in the world to change. It does take time and focus to improve our vibrational place but remember, just as the Law of Attraction added power and momentum to our old thoughts the same will happen with our new thoughts, and once the new thoughts are the strongest vibration within us on whatever subject we’re giving our attention too, they will be the thoughts we have the easiest access too and what we’ll be creating our future experience from, and that’s a very good place to be!!!

As we become more aware of how this Universe and the Law of Attraction works, things we may have previously not taken notice of that we prescribed little or no meaning too, start taking on much deeper meanings and we start to recognise and see these signs and what they possible mean for us. They aren’t always good feeling or wanted signs, but they are always what we need to move forward in the direction we’re wanting to go. It’s when we can see all that happens in our experience, both wanted and unwanted as being opportunities for deeper understandings and knowing (especially when dealt with positively) that we’ll be propelled forward and that’s when we start to move into accessing the full power of who we are!!!

Every person that comes forward into a physical life knows this, for this knowing is part of what makes us who we really are. If those that surrounded us as we grew up didn’t know and teach us how to focus on what we’re wanting by directing our thoughts and feelings in a positive direction because they themselves didn’t know, we may have experienced temporary memory loss, forgetting that we are the creators of our own life experiences. I say “temporary memory loss” because it’s not possible for anyone to permanently eradicate part of what makes us who we are and it’s only a matter of time before those that have forgotten these truths find themselves on a journey of remembering and discovery.

No matter where we are on our journey and how much we’ve come to remember and understand about this life……There’s always more.
~ It’s not a race to see who knows the most.
~ It’s not about declaring ones self to be better than others.
~ It’s about being able to create the life we’re wanting to live and to possibly pass something positive on that we know may help others live more of the life they’re wanting to live….If they’re in the place to receive it of course???

I don’t know about anybody else….But that sounds pretty good to me!!!

And so our journey together continues….

Will I break my New Years Resolution???

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No, I definitely won’t break my New Years Resolution!!!
How do I know this…..Because I don’t make them.

I’m not for or against anyone making any sort of decision at any point in their lives whether it’s on New Years or any other time, especially if we’re feeling inspired to do so.
But it’s a good idea to consider and become aware of some things that may either hinder or help us work towards whatever it is we’ve set down for ourselves to achieve.

The most important factor to ask ourselves when making any decision is….Am I in a positive feeling vibrational place about the changes I plan to make???

I’m assuming that thought has been given to what we’re wanting to achieve, what we believe we need to do and the possible changes we’re prepared to make to achieve what we’re wanting. If we haven’t given thought to what we believe we need to do to achieve our desired goal, our words are likely to be a bit empty and hollow, more of a wish or dream that we don’t really believe is possible. This is not necessarily a bad thing because we all need to start somewhere….Don’t you think???

It’s not often that the instant we decide to do something our belief, what, when, and how to do something is automatically known to us. It’s a process that takes some time and focused thought before all the required components are fully revealed through our experience. Taking the time and using our positive focus to get our thoughts in a place where we believe what we’re wanting is not only possible but probable, we give ourselves the best opportunity to move forward in a positive way. When we maintain that vibration place over time with emotional intensity, it’s only a matter of time before the best way for us to proceed is revealed to us as the Law of Attraction continues to respond to our positive vibrational place adding power and momentum to it….And that’s a very good thing!!!

It’s a good idea to have some sort of plan about what we think we may need to do to achieve something, but it’s just as important to be open-minded and flexible enough to change what we may have thought we need to do into a new direction as different maybe better alternatives are revealed to us as our thought improves. Being too rigid and specific in our plans and not being prepared to try a different approach that we had not previously considered can send us down a path that may be more difficult to achieve whatever it is we’re wanting.

When we initially make a decision to do something, we often have positive thoughts behind it, otherwise we wouldn’t feel the need to declare it to others. Not that many people will tell everyone what they’re intending to do if they don’t believe they can do it. Something to consider about doing this is it often puts undue pressure on us, especially if we encounter unknown bumps in the road, (and lets face it that happens all the time) and our path diverts from our original destination.

I know many people are wanting to be supportive of others but when we find ourselves in a position of having to explain what we’ve been doing and why what we’re wanting to achieve hasn’t eventuated yet, and other questions we may not yet have the answers too, this can be difficult to feel good about.
The best answer to such questions is, “When I know….I’ll let you know!!!”

Sometimes it’s better to keep our decisions to ourselves until we have some positive momentum behind what we’re doing. This gives us the opportunity to find our way without the added pressure of others watching and questioning what we’re doing. Of course no one can really put pressure on us, only we can do that to ourselves. Some may think this pressure can help them to achieve what they’re wanting, and in some circumstances this is possible, but more often it doesn’t, especially if things are taking much longer than what we’ve expected.

The moral of the story is….

~ Any decision we make from a good feeling place is a wonderful thing, whether we start in the New Year or any other day of the year.
~ Make decisions from the best possible feeling place we can find avoiding taking action from a less than good feeling place.
~ Continue to make an effort to improve self-belief and how we feel as time passes and be open to change as new circumstances unfold that may move us in an improved direction.
~ Unwanted circumstances are an opportunity to release resistant thoughts we may not have been aware we had to our own desires.
~ It may be a good idea to keep our decisions to ourselves until we have a good amount to positive momentum going behind us.

And mostly, be kind to yourself xxx

And so our journey continues….

It’s easy to feel good when good things happen….

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Now isn’t that the truth!!!
But the trick is, or more to the point, the truth is….

It isn’t just how we react when good things turn up that matters and may determine our future experiences, although this is important. Just as importantly, it’s what we do when things aren’t all going our way that also effects what we may attract into our lives. Our future experiences are created by the length of time we focus, and how much emotional intensity we give any subject. Whether our focus is on something that’s happened in the past, is happening now, or is something we’re imagining that hasn’t yet happened doesn’t matter, it’s the strength of our focus that matters and creates.

When unwanted circumstances turn-up, sometimes we’re prone to give them a great amount of focus. This would be good if our focus was directed in a positive good feeling direction on all the good that may come from our experience and possible solutions or changes we may need to put in place to move forward in a more wanted direction. It’s not about pretending we like things we do not, that’s never a good thing as it doesn’t work through negative emotions within us that may be attracting unwanted situations into our experience.
Dealing with unwanted circumstances in positive ways means we’re much more likely to move through any emotional resistance we may have to whatever manifested so that similar circumstances don’t turn-up again in the future!!! Now that sounds very good….Don’t you think???

If we’re in a vibrational place that isn’t too far away from this perspective and if we’re feeling generally happy in our lives about many things, it’s not too hard to redirect ourselves into a better feeling place when unwanted circumstances happen. This is because power and momentum is achieved behind how we feel as the Law of Attraction responds to the vibrations we are constantly emitting, and when we focus strongly and positively on anything, whether it’s wanted or unwanted, we release resistance and create even more wanted future experiences. It becomes our normal good feeling vibrational place to go to and be in without having to make too much effort to get there…..And that’s so awesome!!!

Once we’ve come to understand how we’re creating our life experiences through our own observation of how we feel and what manifests, it may take some time and effort to move our thoughts and feelings into a better vibrational place if we’ve focused for some time with negative emotional intensity on unwanted circumstances.
The good news is…..Once we have an awareness that we’re creating our life it’s not possible to undo this knowing and it’s only a matter of time before we start to exercise the true power that’s within us all.

The power to feel good apart from whatever’s happening.
The power to focus strongly on the good that’s around us.
The power to acknowledge what’s unwanted and move forward positively.
The power to create what we’re wanting in our own lives.

That is a TRUTH that’s worth believing in!!!

And so it is….

It’s hard to full a cup…..When that cup is already full!!!

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I’m not sure who first coined this saying….But I think it was well said by the psychic mother of the Na’vi people in the movie Avatar!!!

Most people understand what this common saying is getting at, and of course there is a great truth within these words.
It’s especially relevant to those that have been on this planet for some time that are becoming aware they’re holding strong beliefs that may no longer be serving them or what they’re wanting to experience in their lives.

The experiences we’ve had, especially in our earlier years start to shape our beliefs about life and how life works. Once our beliefs are in place, we receive much evidence of those beliefs and the beliefs of the larger culture we’ve been brought up in as the Law of Attraction responds to the vibrations we emit with matching manifestations strengthening our initial beliefs. This is the circle or cycle of creation so to speak.
We experience something, we believe what we see and we receive more evidence of the beliefs we hold….
Belief-Experience-Evidence-Belief….And so it continues….

Once we have strong beliefs in place, most would agree, it’s not an easy thing to automatically change those beliefs as there’s much power and momentum behind them. All our beliefs have come about over time with focused attention, so in order to change beliefs we feel are no longer helping us to achieve what we’re wanting in our lives, it makes sense that it will require some time and focus to move the thoughts that are at the basis of our beliefs,into a better feeling vibrational place.

Rather than changing negative beliefs we have, most will defend their beliefs by stating “It’s true, look at all the evidence of my belief!!”
And I say yes,….Whatever we focus on over time with emotional intensity will eventually draw evidence of our focus, Universal Law says it must.
The question isn’t so much is what we’re experiencing or observing true or not, the question is…..”Is what I’m experiencing or observing something I want to bring into my life in an even stronger way than what I’m experiencing now???”

If it’s a wanted experience, the answer for most would be yes. If it’s an unwanted experience or circumstance, the fact that it’s true or happening is not a criteria I find to be sufficient enough to give anything my focused attention. A better criteria is…..Am I wanting to attract similar circumstances into my life by focusing on this truth….Because enough focused attention given to anything will start to attract circumstances that have the same emotional feeling to them, unless we change our focus.

There are so many truths out in the big wide world, what’s wanted, what’s unwanted, and everything in-between.
We cannot eradicate anything by focusing in a strongly negative way on what we don’t like and find to be wrong within ourselves, others or the greater world, but we can experience all we’re wanting by focusing on all we find to be good in a strongly positive way and by making an effort to feel slightly better about those things we aren’t feeling so good about.
It’s a choice every single person is making every time we give our focused attention to something. Not knowing we’re creating our life experiences in this way means we may be focusing on strongly unwanted circumstances without making an effort to move our thoughts into better feeling vibrational places.

As always there’s a silver lining within every situation we encounter, especially unwanted circumstances, so even if we are living our lives without being aware of exactly how we’re creating it, manifestational evidence does strengthen as we move through time making it more likely we’ll start making the connection between what we continue to focus upon and what’s turning up in our experience.

Like all things in life, it’s a journey where we’re continually on the path to deeper understandings and knowledge. All experiences both wanted and unwanted have within them the opportunity for us to move forward in a more positive direction than we may have before the experience presented itself to us.
And sometimes we need to empty our cup a little….To allow enough space for something new and great to come in!!!

Now that’s something worth making an effort for….

And so it is….

What’s more important than being HAPPY???

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That’s a slightly misleading title, because no matter what we’re doing, we are doing what we feel will achieve or at least get us the closest to the results we’re wanting. A more descriptive question would be……What circumstances do I require or need to achieve before I will allow myself to be happy???

There are many conditions we may or may not be aware of that we’ve put in place to be met before allowing ourselves to be happy such as;

~ It’s more important to be right.
~ Those I talk with must understand what I’m saying.
~ Those I talk with must agree with my point of view.
~ Others I observe must behave in an appropriate way.
~ Things must work out how I am wanting them too.

I can imagine what some people may be thinking….Who doesn’t like it when others understand them and behave in ways we find appropriate. And is there a person living that doesn’t love it when circumstances unfold how they’re wanting???
Of course not, we all love it when we have these types of experiences, because lets face it, it feels so good!!! This is also evidence of the positive vibrational place we have maintained overtime with emotional intensity that the Law of Attraction has responded in-kind too, and when we’re knowing this….That is an awesome feeling that is beyond Physical description!!!

So we could say, yes I’m happy once I’ve proved myself as right, (and others as wrong) are understood or agreed with, and when others behave appropriately. But anyone that’s lived here for some time knows that we’ll always come up against the opposite of the things we’re wanting to experience at some point or another in our life. It isn’t whether we’ll observe or experience unwanted situations in our life, that’s the nature of being in this Physical world. What is important is what we do and how we react when we’re faced with unwanted circumstances and challenges.

It’s all about what we focus on at these times, and what we continue to focus on after an experience has happened that determines what we’re attracting into our future experience. If we can focus on the positives in any situation, this ensures we’re creating the best possible future experiences for ourselves and moving through any resistance we may have to what’s currently happening. This is a very good plan of action, but are empty and hollow words to those that have been focused on all they find to be wrong and unwanted in the world and their experience……

If there are circumstances we’ve been strongly negatively focused on for an extended period of time, it’s does take some time and effort to move our thoughts into a better feeling place…..But once we’re noticing the link between what we’re thinking and feeling and what’s turning up in our life experience, I don’t know anything else that’s worth making more of an effort for, do you???

When we’re knowing we create our own life experiences through our focused thoughts and feelings,(our vibration) we start to realise there are very few circumstances that are worth feeling strong negative emotion about for any length of time. I’m not suggesting we should pretend we like things we clearly do not…. No, that falls into the category of denial, and that rarely brings anything we’re wanting into our lives.
If we only allow ourselves happiness when circumstances unfold exactly as were wanting, we set ourselves up in a situation where we may be unhappy for much of the time. This attracts vibrational matches in the form of thoughts, people, places and events depending on the amount of time we’ve spent being unhappy, and the strength of our negative emotion.

It’s an impossible task to try to control or manipulate others into doing what we want them to do so we can be happy and usually ends in all parties involved being miserable. And I’m sure most have realised, everyone else that’s living hasn’t actually come to make sure everything unfolds in our lives the way we want it too, they’ve come here to create what they’re wanting in their lives, just as we have.

So the moral of the story is….

~ Appreciate experiences and interactions we have with others when things are unfolding as we want them too.
~ Try to see the benefit that comes from all experiences, especially unwanted circumstances, this quickly moves us into a better vibration place about it and releases resistance.
~ Acknowledge any negative emotions we have to past or present experiences and make an effort to move our thoughts into a better feeling place, even if it’s only slightly.
~ Avoid relying on others to provide our happiness….It’s not their job, it’s ours.
~ Wherever we are and whatever we’re doing, even if it’s less that what we’re exactly wanting, is moving us ever so much closer to all that we are, and all we are wanting….

And that has to be a good thing….Don’t you think???

And so our journey continues…..

Exodus: Gods and Kings……A Movie Review about Belief & Faith.

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Who doesn’t love a good Bible story that’s been turned into a movie!!! Probably lots of people, but I love them, so of course I wanted to spread the Good News about it. Hehehe….

So I met my lovely husband at the pictures last night (hope he reads this!!!) With great anticipation of seeing something awesome, and I have to say, I wasn’t disappointed.

Although I am not religious, like many that have been brought up in western culture, I know this story fairly well. The movie stayed pretty much in line with the legend of Moses and how he came to free his people from slavery in Egypt.

Even though it was set in ancient times with struggles vastly different to what many are experiencing now, it brings up many subjects that are just as important in the times we’re living now, as they were back then.

For me it was a movie about choices, belief, and faith.

Making a firm choice that often comes from an experience we’ve had and then putting all the positive thoughts we can produce (belief and faith) behind that choice, even in the face of unwanted manifestations, (resistance from our own negative thoughts) and working through those challenges until clarity is once again achieved resulting in renewed and strengthened belief and faith in ourselves and what we’re doing.
Holy Moses…..I make it sound so easy!!!

It can be easy, but that depends a lot on where our general vibrational, emotional place is, and how long we’ve been focused on circumstances that may be unwanted in our lives??? The longer we’ve spent focusing on anything, whether it’s something that’s already happened or is currently happening and whether those circumstances are wanted or unwanted, the Law of Attraction responds equally to all vibrations (thoughts and emotions) that all living beings emit.
Once power and momentum is achieved behind our focused thoughts, it’s only a matter of time before circumstances that feel the same as the vibrations we’ve been sending out are returned to us in full Physical manifestational form unless our vibrations are changed before they have gained enough momentum to materialise. This is Universal Law….No exceptions ever!!!

So what is the moral of this story???

~ Relax and go to see an awesome movie!!!
~ Put all the positive energy you can muster behind the choices you make.
~ When unwanted circumstances turn up, know you have the power and strength to overcome those challenges, if that’s what you’re wanting to do.

And as Moses says, “Don’t believe in what everyone else tells you, believe in yourself.” And I whole heartedly agree!!!

And so our journey continues…..

And so it does!!!

I do not play happy families…..Do you???

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This is by no means a statement suggesting I don’t like or don’t want to have happy family interactions in my life…..I definitely do.
It’s more a statement that I will not “play or pretend” that everything is rainbows and lollipops, when it is not!!!

Whether or not we’re prepared to play the game of “happy families” when we are not will depend on the choices we believe we have before us, and which choices we believe will give us the best feeling or most wanted outcome.

Some may argue and say, “No, I don’t want to do it, but I’m doing it for the children, or my parents, or my partner, or whomever else’s expectations or influence I’ve put as more important than mine.”
And I say yes, nothing is purely black and white when we’re dealing with many different people in different vibrational places bringing varied beliefs and life experiences to the table. It can make for some very challenging situations and difficult choices to be made.
But when all the complexities of any decision we’re making are taken into consideration, we must acknowledge that it’s always our final decision on what we do. No other has the power to make us do what we are not wanting to do, even if we think they do….They do not, it’s our choice.

I know it’s not always easy if we’ve made it our job to try to keep others happy by doing what they think we should do. Putting someone else’s happiness above what we’re wanting to do or what we believe is best for us is rarely a good idea unless we are able to put all our positive feelings and thoughts behind the choices that we’ve made, even if it is primarily for someone else’s benefit. It’s when we go against what we really want to do for someone else and feel resentful about it when things can go off in the ditch in an unpleasant way…..Hehehe (Opps….Just laughing about the “off in the ditch” bit!!!)
But seriously, I know it’s not nice when things don’t work out how we wanted them too, like who does???
If we make a decision to be true to ourselves and do what we are wanting even though others may not like it, it’s important to focus on all the positives of making our decision and to stand firm in our own thoughts.
If we make a decision to do something we aren’t wanting to really do but feel others will benefit and that’s very important to us, we need to do the same by focusing on all the positives of making our decision and try not to entertain resentful or negative thoughts.

We may not be able to control what others are doing and saying…..Let me rephrase that, we definitely aren’t able to control what others do and say, but one thing is for sure, we can control what we do and say. By taking the time to move to a better feeling vibrational place before we find ourselves in a less than wanted situation, greatly increases the possibility of circumstances unfolding in a more wanted direction as the Law of Attraction responds to our improved feeling place on the subject.

When all is said and done, no matter what we do, some things will always play themselves out. This is because when we’re interacting with others there is a mixture of vibrations that the Law of Attraction will be responding too. What manifests in these situations will be a blending of those vibrations, with the person that has focused for the longest time with the strongest emotional intensity usually dominating the vibrational space and effecting what is currently manifesting the most.

The person with the thoughts that have gained the most power and momentum through a lot of focused attention over time, whether they are positive and wanted or negative and unwanted will often influence the others vibrations they’re interacting with into their vibrational place, unless one is very strong and not easily moved from their vibrational place by others.

So the moral of the story is…..

~We are all free to choose what we are wanting to do.
~Once we’ve made a decision, focus on all the good that will come from your decision and feel good about it.
~Be easily influenced into a positive good feeling vibrational place by the happy ones around you!!!
~Stand firm in your positive good feeling vibrational place when around unhappy ones…..And for gods sake, don’t stay around them for too long unless you feel like you need to be miserable for a while to appreciate how good it is to feel awesome again!!!

Hehehe…..How true is that!!!

And so it is….

Don’t Blame it on me!!!

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These are lyrics from the recent awesome song Blame, by Calvin Harris featuring John Newman.

If I had a dollar for every time I’ve heard someone utter, “Don’t blame me,” or “It’s not my fault”….I would totally be rich!! Hehehe

Although there are very real consequences that come from the actions we and others take, if we’re starting to understand we are the creators of our own life experiences and that we create those life experiences through our own focused thoughts and attention…..One must come to the realisation that blaming others for circumstances that have manifested in our lives is a futile and counter productive endeavour.

It doesn’t mean that blaming others is wrong. It’s not really a matter of right or wrong but more a matter of, does blaming others move us in a direction we are wanting to go in or is it moving us in a direction of something we are not wanting to experience??? (Law of Attraction)

If blaming others feels good, this is because we are moving into a better feeling vibrational place than we were currently in before we choose to blame. In other words, moving from a less powerful place to a more empowered place which is a natural and good occurrence. This is our natural tendency and desire to feel as good as we possibly can at any given moment in time.

So blame can be a good short-term place for us to be in as long as we don’t get stuck there for too long. It’s quite a strong negative emotional place to be in and does draw unwanted circumstances if we allow ourselves to stay there without making the effort to move vibrationally.

I like to think of it as a bit of a balancing act between taking responsibility in a positive way for what comes into our experience and acknowledging that everyone is in different vibrational places that we don’t have control over. It’s virtually impossible to remember every thought and feeling we’ve had to every circumstance we’ve experienced in the past, so these small unwanted occurrences can be a good opportunity to move into a better vibrational place on something we might not have been previously aware we had a vibration about.

It’s difficult not to blame when we feel someone has done something with the intention to hurt us, and this does take some time and effort to move to a better vibrational place about, but it is important to do if we want to create improved circumstances in our future experiences.
If we do find ourselves in situations where others are intentionally being unkind, it’s a good idea to walk away, but if we feel we must stand up and say something, speak as calmly and emotionally neutral as possible being prepared to walk away if they want to argue.
It’s also good to remember that how others behave is more about who they are currently being, rather than it is about who we are currently being.
I do not say this in a negative or revengeful emotional way but more as a statement of fact and Universal Law…. If those that are intentionally being unkind to others knew that they would eventually receive back that which they have originally given out, they would not be doing such things….

Focusing as much as possible on the aspects in our lives that are good and on what we are wanting in a positive way is a great way to receive more of what we love and are wanting…..And I say, “That is so Awesome!!”

And so it is….