Facing your fears….Do you think that’s a good idea???

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I’m quite unsure why we live in a time where many people encourage others to take action and do something they are extremely scared and fearful of doing….We would only do this if we were unaware of what we are really doing.

I’m not speaking about offering some positive encouragement when someone may be requiring a little boost of confidence in themselves to do what they are really wanting to do. I’m talking about trying to persuade someone to do something they are obviously and clearly not wanting to do because of an extreme fear they have.

To understand this, we need to know what the emotion of fear really is.
Fear, no matter what our fear is about or what it’s in relation too, is always communication from the Non-Physical part of us that has remained in the Non-Physical realm, letting us know….
What we are currently giving our attention too, or contemplating doing is a highly unwanted circumstance or situation that we have given focused thought to over time, that the Law of Attraction has responded too, offering up similar feeling circumstances giving us the opportunity to move into a better feeling vibrational place regarding it. (or to continue to feel fear and receive other circumstances that sit in this fearful vibrational place?)

Encouraging anyone to go against what they are strongly feeling, their own Inner Guidance based on all that they know and have experienced in this Physical life, is very poor advice at best, and I would say it’s a good idea to question ones motivations for doing such things. Just because we see something as an irrational or unwarranted fear based on our life experiences, does not make it so for others.
The most important thing to know is….the stronger our own or someone else’s reaction is to anything we are currently giving thought too, the closer we are to a full blown, here and now, physical manifestation that will match what we are feeling!!
Of course it feels good to give another some positive reinforcement, but to try very hard to get anyone to do something that goes against what they strongly feel….I don’t know? It’s better to gently encourage if we feel someone is close to being able to do what they are wanting, but to know ultimately, only they know how they are truly feeling and what’s best for them.

It’s better to tackle strong fear in small steps if we are wanting to help ourselves or anyone else move to a better feeling vibrational place regarding it.
If it’s a fear we don’t think about very often, we probably won’t be experiencing many physical manifestations regarding it, but if it’s something we think about often with increasingly strong emotions, we will probably be experiencing some physical manifestations that may not match what we are fearing exactly, but they will definitely have the same emotional feel about them.

I definitely wouldn’t suggest it’s a good idea to drag up everything we may be fearing and try to move it to a better feeling vibrational place, but if we are experiencing some fearful situations, this is a very strong indication that our fearful thoughts have gained enough power and momentum behind them through receiving plenty of air time through our own thought process that the Law of Attraction has responded to with similar feeling physical circumstances….This is the perfect opportunity to move our thought into a slightly better feeling place.

As with all things, it’s not usually possible to go from zero to hero (from strongly fearful to no fear) all at one time, and trying usually causes us to give up and resign ourselves to feeling bad if we don’t achieve the better feeling place we were reaching for.
It’s not that we can’t do it, it’s more that by the time we get to any place where we feel strong emotion, positive or negative for that matter, there is much power and momentum behind those thoughts that does take some time and effort to redirect into a different place.

No matter where any of us are….we are all doing our best based on what we know, and when we know better, we can do better….

And so it is….

Why is the Universe sending me these challenges???

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The Universe is not judging who’s supposedly “good or bad” and sending us challenges, if we are experiencing challenges, they are coming through our own focused thoughts, whether we are aware of it or not! In other words, we are receiving many things in our lives both wanted and unwanted, but it’s not through luck or the Universe deciding we’ve had it “too good for too long” and need some not nice experiences in our lives, these things come through our own focused thoughts that we’ve given plenty of attention, over a prolonged period of time with strong emotions that the Law of Attraction has responded in-kind too.

The Universe and everything within it is governed by some very strong and consistent laws such as Gravity, Physics, and the powerful Law of Attraction to name a few, and it doesn’t matter whether or not we are aware of these Universal Laws for them to have an effect on every aspect of our lives, they just are….But it would be true to say, the more aware we are of these Laws, and the more consciously we apply them in our life, the better the results we’re achieving will be.

When challenges do arise in our lives, it’s usually because we’ve had some resistant, negative thoughts that need to be moved to a better feeling vibrational place in order for us to move into more of what we are really wanting, and to do so, our thoughts may need to be slightly redirected in some way.
It’s also important to know…. Even when we are sitting in a very good feeling vibrational place in relation to all we’re experiencing and wanting in our life, challenges will always present themselves to us. The idea of consistently and immediately being in vibrational alignment in a Physical environment where there’s so many contrasting experiences we may be living and observing, is probably a slightly unrealistic expectation and can set one up for disappointment.

Although this is true, being in a good feeling vibrational place does indicate the level or strength of the challenges we’ll face. It’s very unlikely that circumstances that are the manifestation of very resistant, not good feeling thoughts will come our way if we have been making a gentle effort to move our thoughts and feelings into a generally better feeling vibrational place in relation to what we’re currently experiencing and what’s important to us.

There is always a time difference between desiring something and getting ourselves in vibrational alignment with that which we have desired, but the more we are listening to the guidance from our Inner Being, the Non-Physical part of us that is letting us know through our emotions where we are in relation to whatever we’re wanting, the shorter the time period will be before the Physical manifestations we are wanting turn up.

Life is supposed to be good for all of us….And there is nothing that we have wanted or will desire in the future that we cannot achieve, but we do need to find the good feeling vibrational place of it.
This is the same for every physical being that has ever lived….And there’s nothing fairer in the world than this….

And so it is….

Love is all around us….

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Ok, so this was supposed to be a post with just a photo, that’s why I’ve got all that writing on there!!!
But then I wrote the post title and found myself not wanting to post it without saying something….Well that’s a surprise isn’t it….Hehehe!!

Many would disagree strongly and suggest I live in “Fairy Land” and would explain all the things they may have experienced in their lives or circumstances they may have observed others living that would demonstrate the exact opposite of love….And I agree, the opposite of love exists, with all the shades of emotional greys in-between, it is a great gift.
We’ve all come forward with the ability to create our lives through our focused thoughts and feelings, our vibration, and we’re able to create anything we focus on with strong emotion that’s held onto over time. As the Law of Attraction responds to our dominant vibrations, we will eventually experience the full physical manifestation of that focus, whether it is wanted or not.

Freewill would not truly be freewill if we only had the option to create positive circumstances in our lives, as it is in Non-Physical, although it does sound great if we’ve been experiencing many unwanted circumstances in our lives through not knowing how we are creating them!

The great story of Adam and Eve is an analogy of how we came from Pure Positive Non-Physical Energy, into our Physical environment, (Earth and the Human Body) an environment where polarities exist everywhere, unlike the Non-Physical realm where only Pure Positive Energy resides, a contrasting environment where we can choose either wanted or unwanted through the power of our vibration. It was not a falling from grace that birthed us into this Earthly time-space reality, but a choice of freewill, a powerful choice to come forward with the ability to experience the full spectrum of emotions and circumstances, with guidance from the Non-Physical part of us in the form of our emotions letting us know where we are in relation to all we’ve wanted in this life, and all previous lives for that matter too.

Love is in every particle of our Universe, and so is the opposite of it, for this is the only way we can truly know the difference between anything in our experience.
For example, if the temperature was warm in every place on this planet….How would you know it was warm without the ability to compare it against hot or cold? A very basic example I know, but I’m sure you can feel the truth of it.

And so the same goes for all possible experiences. There is an abundance or lack of everything you can possibly imagine, it’s just a matter of where we place our attention and where we set our general vibrational place that determines what we experience.

I know it can be difficult when we have not known this is how we’ve been creating our life experiences, but with Knowledge comes Power…. And whether we have known this for some time or are just coming to understand this now, each and every one of us has the ability to consciously and undeniably move ourselves into a slightly better feeling vibrational place NOW!!

And so it is….

I’ve been waiting for acceptance & approval from my parents for so long….

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Unfortunately many people are not allowing themselves to really feel happy because they are waiting for one or both of their parents unconditional love and acceptance.
And of course it’s wonderful when we feel we have their love and approval, but if this is not the case, it’s often because each generation, in their own right is different to previous generations, (that’s what they call progress I think!!) and for many people who are not very accepting of change or are wishing others were different to what they really are, (or maybe more obedient than they are) this can be difficult for them to accept and be happy about.
If you do not feel like you have received the love, acceptance or approval you thought your parents should have given you as you were growing up (and possibly presently too?) The most important thing to know is….Their inability to love unconditionally is far more about them than it is about you!

If our parents were not feeling good about something we were or were not doing, it was their inability or not knowing how to move themselves into a better feeling vibrational place that caused them to look on us with negative emotions or judgements, rather than us being wrong. Of course we did things that may not have been ideal, but that is the purpose they were there, to teach and guide us in a “positive way.”
It’s a very difficult task to guide another positively when we are not in a very good feeling vibrational place ourselves, but add to that the belief that others must behave in specific ways before we allow ourselves to be happy….And that’s a recipe for….Well, being very controlling and unhappy.
If we are requiring others to behave in ways we find acceptable and make us feel good, we give others the job of making us happy rather than taking the power we’ve had since the day we made our way into this physical body (and before we came forward too!!) by using our mind to bring ourselves into a good feeling vibrational place that is not so reliant on what is happening around us or what others are doing.
Now, I don’t know if you’ve noticed, but everyone here is doing their best to make themselves happy, which doesn’t leave a lot to time for making everyone else happy which is the way it should be, for you cannot know exactly what will make others happy, that’s their job to figure that out and move towards it.
For those that are trying every which way to make others happy, they will eventually find it an impossible task to achieve consistently.

This being true, not much good comes from holding onto resentment and negative feelings about the way our parents did or did not raise us, for no matter what they did, most did the best that they could based on what they knew at that time, just as we are doing our best to raise our children now, based on what we know. It’s important to acknowledge the past cannot be changed, but how we feel about it now, can be changed and moved into a better feeling place if that’s what were wanting to do.
If we did receive our parents unconditional love as we were growing-up, it gives one confidence and self-esteem as it confirms what young ones know strongly as they come forward into their physical bodies, “I am a very good human being that deserves to be loved.” But if we felt we did not receive parental love, it can set up a mindset that goes something like, “If my mother or father doesn’t love me, maybe I’m not good enough?”
Of course this is not true, and most of us would agree that just because someone doesn’t love us, it doesn’t make us unlovable, but it matters more when we’re young as we’re more easily influenced, especially by those we hold in high regard and are strongly connected too.

So whether or not we felt loved and accepted or approved of by our parents while we were growing up, and even now, there comes a time when we must decide for ourselves that we are good enough and worthy human beings….
Because “who we really are” is all these things, and so much more….And when we know this is who we are, now we can see it in all others, and I say “That is so good!!”

And so it is….

The Right to Life or Death….Whose decision is it???

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Each of us is ultimately in charge of our own mind and physical body, and although we may be influenced by the thoughts and beliefs of our society, culture, and the family we’ve grown up in, in the end it’s our decision whether we want to continue in this physical life or not.

When we enter this time-space reality, we came forward with strong purpose and intentions for this physical life, so our desire to live and experience the life we have chosen, is a very strong and powerful calling that sits at the very core of who we really are.

The ending of life in this physical body is a decision made by either the Physical us, the Non-Physical us or a combination of both the Physical and Non-Physical parts of us. For most, it would be true to say, this decision is usually made from our Non-Physical perspective.

The main reasons for making our transition back to the Non-Physical realm are;
~ The intentions that we put forward when coming into our current Physical life have been achieved and the soul is ready for a fresh and new Physical perspective. (Imagine wearing the same outfit for centuries, even if we really liked it, eventually we’d want to wear something different, so it is with experiencing different lives!!) Hehehe….That’s a very good analogy, I like it!!
~ If much resistant has been gathered over time while in our current Physical life, this takes a toll on the mind and body to a point where both may start to break down and the decision is made to return to the Non-Physical realm once again.

No matter how the circumstances unfold, it’s always us who decides when, where and how we will make our transition back to Non-Physical, even when we are not aware this is the case, which often we are not.
Although there are always exceptions to what most are doing, to make a conscious decision to leave this life experience from our Physical perspective requires us to have either gained insight into how we are creating our life, and how we may wish to end it in a desirable way, or we may have gradually gotten ourselves into a very not good feeling vibrational place we feel we cannot come out of, therefore making the choice to leave this body.
Some may find this hard to believe and I totally understand that point of view, for if we have not known there is another part of us that’s remained in the Non-Physical realm, and that this Non-Physical counterpart has been communicating to the Physical here and now part of us through our thoughts and emotions, our vibration…this would seem, well…weird.
Life truly is never-ending, and although we will all leave the body we’re currently in, who we really are never dies, but simply changes form.
When we are understanding this, we no longer feel the need to make judgements about whether others should continue in a painful manner at the end of their physical life, especially if this is not what they are wanting, and let’s be honest, not many would want to end this physical life in pain, but may feel they don’t have a choice or may be frightened to let go because they are unsure of what, if anything, may follow.

The death experience will come to us all, that we can be sure of, and when we can understand and embrace this truth about life, there is not much left to fear, and now we can live (and make our transition) as we intended too, just as we made our powerful and joyful decision to come forward into this physical life in the first place!!

And so it is….

Don’t judge a book by its cover….

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I think many would have a good idea what people mean when they say "Don't judge a book by its cover."
It's fairly obvious that you cannot know everything about a person purely by observing their physical appearance and this saying speaks to that truth by reminding us to avoid judging others too harshly or in a negative way before we've got to know them.
But that's where the truth of this statement ends.
Of course it's not nice to judge others harshly when you don't know a lot about them, but the idea that you will not take anything that you are observing with your own eyes, and what you may be feeling from them vibrationally into consideration when deciding whether you wish to interact with another person or not is…..Well, it's highly unlikely as this happens automatically, whether we are aware of it or not.
So our interpretation of another comes not just from what we are observing, ( hair, skin colour, clothing, cleanliness, presentation etc) not to underestimate what we are seeing, but also from a persons facial expressions, body language, and especially from what they are sending out vibrationally.
We all have a general vibrational signal that is being emitted from us in every moment we are in this physical body. (and when we are in the Non-Physical realm too….But that would require a post of its own!!)
Our general vibrational place is made up of all the thoughts and feelings we’ve ever had, although subjects we are currently focused on and things we feel very strongly about both positive and negative, will be sending out a stronger signal than subjects that are less important to us.
Whenever we come into contact with others, we’re picking up on their vibration to a certain extent, depending on how sensitive we are to how we’re feeling and how aware we are that this is happening.
Whatever we may be feeling when we’re observing anyone, but especially those we don’t know, will be a blending of their physical appearance, body language, and most importantly, their vibration. This is a positive occurrence, unless we make very negative judgements based on the information we are receiving.
When others are very different to ourselves, we often feel it very strongly and sometimes negatively, and we may assume, “there must be something wrong with that person,” otherwise why am I feeling not good when I look at them?
Whereas it’s usually an indication not that someone is “not good,” but that there will be a lot of differences between the two of you.
Now it’s true to say that it wouldn’t be much fun if we were all the same, but on the flip side of that, it’s not usually much fun to interact with people who are vastly different to ourselves either, especially if our core beliefs about life are at the opposite ends of the scale for this can make for some very not nice communication, and no one usually wants that!
Another factor about our physical appearance that’s often not considered is, what we see on the outside is always a reflection of what’s going on inside us and what we’ve been doing with our thought process, for it’s not possible to hide who you have been and who you are currently being, it’s out there for everyone to see, especially if you are holding negative thoughts and feelings about past experiences that the Law of Attraction is responding in-kind too, for this takes its toll on the mind and physical body!
So although it’s definitely not nice to judge others negatively by how they look, it’s important to acknowledge that we’re all receiving valuable information about the others we come into contact with that’s letting us know if it’s a good idea to communicate with them right now or not, and to guide people to not listen to the guidance they are receiving, is very poor advice at best.

For me, I get very strong feelings and information about others, and I do not feel the need to speak to those that are vibrationally a long way from where I am because I know they feel very uncomfortable around me, and that’s not nice for anyone including me.
Rather than trying to push relationships that aren’t a good match, it’s better to let those that are on the same wavelength to you come, for that is a coming together of two like-minded souls….And that is so good!!

And so it is….

Why would we measure our Self-worth….On what someone else thinks of us???

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Of course, it’s wonderful when people are looking at us favorably, but if we are requiring this from every person we come into contact with, we will have to become very good at working out how others would like us to behave in order to ensure their approval of us.
Some may say, “What’s wrong with that?” And I say, nothing is essentially wrong with wanting positive interactions with others and for them to like us, as long as we are not doing anything that goes against who we really are to achieve it.
That brings up an interesting question, is it more important for me to be true to myself and what I believe in, or is it more important for me to gain the approval of others at the cost of going against my own beliefs? (or do I have a belief that goes something like “if people don’t like me, there must be something wrong with me?”)

Although every situation we encounter is different, and we will make our own assessment of what we feel is best for us at that moment, it would be true to say, if many of our interactions are based on doing whatever it takes to gain another’s approval, we can become “temporarily lost” and forget who we really are. By that I mean, we now may be substituting our own Inner Guidance that is directing us through our emotions to all we are wanting, for someone else’s Inner Guidance that is leading them through their emotions to everything they are wanting! Now, unless we’re wanting exactly the same things, have experienced the same circumstances and have come to the same conclusions and beliefs about life….I think it’s quite clear to see no other is better equipped with better Inner Guidance than ourselves, to know what’s best for us.

I say “temporarily lost,” because it’s not possible to completely disconnect from who we really are for any great length of time, sooner or later we always return to that knowing place.
The question isn’t will we return to the full understanding and knowing of who we really are, the question is….How long will we hold ourselves apart from our blended all-knowing Non-Physical perspective, through our own negative contemplation?
Alignment with our Non-Physical counterpart happens when we make our transition from this Physical life and body, but we do not need to wait for this to happen to achieve the blending or alignment of the Physical and Non-Physical together.
If we become sensitive to how we are feeling and do our best to move into the best feeling place we can, it’s only a matter of time before we find ourselves in alignment with who we really are while we’re still in this physical body, and it is so good!!

To begin with it may only be for short moments that we feel this alignment, but as we continue to feel generally better in our life and make an effort to focus on the best that life has to offer, this starts to become our normal vibrational place to be in, and one can find themselves in a very good feeling place for extended periods of time….For no good reason at all!!

Alignment is achieved when the Physical here and now part of us and the Non-Physical part of us are in complete agreement in relation to whatever we are giving our attention to now.
For example, if I am looking at someone and feeling strong negative emotion, this indicates the Non-Physical part of me is thinking something very different to what I am currently thinking, for if I was in alignment with what the Non-Physical part of me was thinking, I would be feeling positive emotion.
So what should I do? Should I try to conjure some feelings of love for this person I am clearly not loving much? I say, “No way,” it cannot be done in a few moments, for it’s virtually impossible to go from strong dislike to liking or loving instantly….Have you tried?

It’s better, or in our best interests to accept the way we feel rather than deny it, and to put our focus on something else if we feel unable to move to a better feeling place rather than trying to “fake it,” because it’s not possible to truly hide how we really feel anyway.

Another option is to just “turn the other cheek” so to speak, look away from that which makes you feel not good, especially if you don’t feel like you can continue to observe without improving your thought. Not much benefit comes from focusing our attention on unwanted circumstances without making an effort to move to a better feeling vibrational place, especially if it’s for an extended period of time….And by “an extended period of time,” I mean anything over about 20 seconds!!!
I know this may seem like a very short amount of time, but this is all it takes before the Law of Attraction will respond to our thought vibrations and give us access to more thoughts of a similar nature, and as we think and focus longer, another thought, and another and another will become more easily available to us, and with enough time and focus that produces intensity of emotion, we will attract physical manifestations that match the dominant vibrations (thoughts and feelings) within us. Very good when we’re focused in the direction of what we are wanting to experience wouldn’t you say?

All I can say is, you do not need others approval to feel worthy, and when we start to access the Inner Guidance we were born with, we start to feel a worthiness that no external circumstances or person can provide….
It comes from knowing “who we really are,” and feeling the absolute power we have to create what we are wanting in our own lives….

And so it is….

Who is my Spiritual Guide???

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I’m sure many people have pondered whether they have a Spiritual Guide or not. This probably depends on whether we’re even believing in this concept.
As with all ideas that are new or foreign to us, it often takes some time and thought before we can come up with any opinion of where we sit in relation to this subject, and depending on where our current beliefs are, will depend on whether we will completely discount the possibility of such things.

It is not my intention to convince you into or out of what ever you are believing is right for you at this time, but it is my intention that I may give you “some things” to ponder in relation to Spiritual Guides.

When I speak of Spiritual Guides, I specifically mean the Individual, Non-Physical, Source Energy guidance that is available to each and every one of us in every moment of this physical life we are living.

Our Spiritual Guide is not some Higher Being that is a far more superior being than us, our Spiritual Guide is the Non-Physical part of us that remained in the Non-Physical realm to help guide the Physical part of us through this life journey, so in other words….”Our Spiritual Guide is ourselves!” That’s pretty tricky don’t you think? Hehehe….
The Non-Physical part of us holds all the knowledge and experiences from the previous lives we have lived, knows all the intentions and desires we had when we came forward into the life we are currently living, and knows every amended desire, intention and experience we’ve had since we’ve been in this physical life and is guiding us in a direction that will lead us to all we have decided through the living of, not just this life, but all the lives we have lived, what we are wanting, by the easiest and most enjoyable route available!!

And how does our Spiritual Guide, or Non-Physical counterpart achieve this???
Through our emotions. Whenever we are feeling any emotion, whether it be positive or negative, we are receiving, individual, personal, and awesome Inner Guidance from the Non-Physical part of us indicating in which way we are moving.
Positive emotion indicates we are moving in the direction of wanted circumstances in our life, the stronger the emotional feeling is and the longer we experience it for, the closer we are to the physical manifestation of something that will be very pleasing when it turns up.
Negative emotion indicates we are moving in the direction of unwanted circumstances in our life, the stronger the emotional feeling is and the longer we experience it for, the closer we are to the physical manifestation of something that will not be very pleasing to us if it turns up.

So, who decides what I do at any given time, the Non-Physical part of me, or the physical part of me?
Well, I’m pretty sure that most people know the Physical, here and now part of us is making the decisions in our lives, based on what we feel is best once we’ve considered all the factors that are important to us.
But when we start to understand exactly what our emotions are telling us, and we start to make an effort to move our thoughts and feelings to an improved vibrational place, our life starts to change for the better.

Many have taken negative emotion that they are feeling as an indication that someone else is doing something “wrong,” whereas it more accurately indicates, we are now either thinking, speaking, observing, or doing something that is moving us in a direction we are not wanting to go.
Now feeling negative emotion is not the end of the world and all of us experience it to varying degrees depending on how much we’ve made an effort to focus on the best in life, or on how much we’ve focused on what we are not liking, or what isn’t working in our life.
And I understand it’s not always possible to just stop something we feel we have to do, for there is often much power and momentum behind such things, but it is completely possible to feel slightly better than where we currently are while we’re doing whatever it is we’re doing…..And that does change everything!!

So we can call it whatever we want, Spiritual Guide, Non-Physical part of ourselves, Inner Being, Soul, or Source Energy….The words don’t matter, but what does matter is we know we have access to this energy that is essentially us, or who we truly are, in every moment of this physical life….
To access this power, we must do our best to move into the vibrational place of it by noticing how we are thinking and feeling at any given moment, and making an effort to feel slightly better. The more we do this, the more we will feel the absolute power of “Who we really are!”
This is what happens when the Physical and Non-Physical parts of us align and blend as one, and like anything we do in life, the more often we achieve this “Alignment,” the easier it is to return to the vibrational place of it, for you cannot mistake it when you find yourself here, for you will feel and know, that this is what you came here for!!

And so it is….

Everything I do…I do it for you…As if!!

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I think it’s amusing when people tell a big story about how they do all these things for other people, like it’s not also for them as if they can take their own desires out of the equation.
It goes something like this…
I’m here purely for others, I help others with no regard for what I’m wanting and for no personal benefit.
And I say, “who do you think you are kidding?
Now it’s true we can be kind and do wonderful things for others, there’s no doubt about that, especially if this is the person we are wanting to be, but think about it….why would we be doing such things, or anything for that matter, without a reason?
If we are being kind and doing things for others, we are doing this because it feels good. Now some may disagree and say, “No , I’m often doing things because I feel I have to and not because it’s feeling good,” and I say the same thing, even if you are doing things that are not making you feel like you want to “jump for joy,” you are still choosing this action over an even less good feeling action…are we not? Yes, it is true.

For example, let’s say I may not be the greatest morning person in the world but I need to get up at a reasonable time to get ready for my forthcoming day ahead. I could just stay in bed if I really wanted to and say, “bugger it, I’m not getting up now,” but I choose to get up because even though I would like to stay in bed, for me I would feel like I haven’t followed through with something I should have and that would feel worse than not getting up. This example may seem like an unimportant subject, but it matters not how important or unimportant the subject is, although we may put more pressure on ourselves to make the best choice if we feel the subject is more important to us, so whether we are aware of it or not, we are always choosing what we think will feel best.
“Which choice out of the options before me feels best, what choice do I feel will get me the closest to that which I am wanting?” It does not matter whether it’s a choice between two wanted situations, something wanted and unwanted, or two unwanted situations.
There may be many factors we consider depending on the situation, where we are in relation to the situation, and the outcome we are desiring, but it always comes down to the same thing, after considering all the possibilities, which choice do we think will feel best?
So I didn’t say our choices are always easy between a wanted or unwanted choice, more often that not and depending on where many earlier choices have lead us based on where we are and our focused thoughts,(vibration) it can be between two highly unwanted choices, but no matter what our choices are, we have the ability to turn any choice into a positive outcome through the power of our focused thoughts.

The idea that a person is not really doing something good unless they want absolutely nothing out of it, is a false truth that can never truly be.
Why?
Because we have all come forward into this life with powerful Inner Guidance from the Non-Physical part of us that remained in the Non-Physical realm giving us constant and consistent feedback in the form of our emotions, letting us know where we are in relation to all we are wanting. If this is so, (and it is) we are always doing what we believe will benefit us most. This does not mean that our intentions cannot be pure in the sense, it feels good to be kind to others, it feels good to help others, it feels good to love others, this is the ultimate “win/win situation!”
And I don’t know about you, but I have never once met a person that has no emotional feelings, although it is possible to meet one that has not listened to what their emotions have been telling them, or have felt so much negative emotion for so long, they have become numb to it.
They are still receiving emotional feedback about where they are in relation to what they are wanting, but may not have understood what it meant or that they had the absolute power to move to a better feeling place. If we do not exercise our power of moving to a better vibrational place, it’s usually only a matter of time before we start becoming accustomed to our negative feelings, and over time, it starts becoming our normal emotional place to be in, feeling less negative than it once did.
So one could think “awesome” when I’m feeling negative emotion, I don’t need to make an effort to move myself to a better feeling place because after a while I’ll get used to it and I won’t feel it anymore. (because it can be difficult and does take some effort if you have lived in this body for some time without exercising your power to do so)
And I say “Holy Moses,” remember that the powerful Law of Attraction is responding in-kind to how you are really feeling, not to what you have become numb too!
Yes, it’s true you cannot hide how you are really feeling from the Universe and the Law of Attraction, and what you are really feeling will be reflected back to you in all manner of manifestations.
You do not need to go back to work through everything you have felt strong negative emotion about in the past.
If we are paying attention to what’s turning up in our experience right here, right now, and doing our best to move to the best feeling place we can even if it’s only a slightly improved feeling place, (especially with negative feeling manifestations) this starts to clear resistance that may have been preventing us from moving in the direction we are really wanting to go, and as we get power and momentum behind this new and improved vibrational place, there’s only one direction this leads….
And that’s into more of the “awesome” life experience you came here to live….

And so it is….

We’re just not supposed to know all the answers….Really???

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Many times during conversations I’ve had with others, people have said to me, “I don’t know if we are supposed to know all the answers, or even if it’s possible to know all the answers?”
And I say, “Nothing further could be from the truth!” Nothing that we are wanting to know is being held from us, but when we think this is the case, it does become our experience, not because it is the “Ultimate Truth,” but purely because you will experience what you believe to be true. ( that’s the Law of Attraction in action again! )
And contrary to what many may think, we do not have to be rocket scientists to receive the answers to the questions we have about what’s happening or happened in our life!
But it is absolutely 100% necessary to believe and then know that we will receive the answers we’re so wishing for.
You do not need to know how, where and when these answers will come, who will bring them, and in what form they will manifest, it’s not our job to figure that out. ( and trying to figure it out before we’ve improved our vibration, is difficult )
That is something the universe is doing on our behalf with the powerful Law of Attraction.
So what is our job?
Well, just to live our life and to decide from everything that’s “out there” in the world, and from our own dreams that we’ve been inspired too… what we would prefer, or what we desire to experience!
Yes, desire…
This is the first step in creation, and it’s not that hard is it.
Every time we do anything, we know what we would prefer, what we feel would be better or improve our experience.
As this happens, the desire that has been born within us from what we have just experienced is received by the Universe. We do not have to speak the words of our desire for it to be fully heard and understood by the Universe, every time, no exceptions, ever! ( we are talking about the energy that creates and sustains life )
The second step of creation is not our job. This is where all the cooperative components required for the full physical manifestation of that which we are wanting are assembled by the Universe and managed by the powerful Law of Attraction.
So you could say, everything we’ve ever desired in this physical lifetime, is sitting vibrationally with the Non-Physical part of us, with all the components required to physically manifest assembled…and being held for us…
If this is so, ( and it is ) you may be wondering, “why aren’t I  experiencing any of it then!”
Well, I’m sure there are many things you have wanted that you have already and are now experiencing, but if our focus has been a bit Uhm….”all over the place” like many human beings on this planet, we may have things we have desired for a long time, that just never seem to come.
To be honest, desiring something is more or less a permanent state of being, but it isn’t a problem when we’re knowing how to align with that which we created through our desire, that the Universe delivered vibrationally, that the Non-Physical part of us….( don’t get mad with me here! ) Is living.
Yes, the Non-Physical part of us is living everything we have desired and is emitting a strong and steady vibrational signal of it, to us in the form of our emotions, that’s letting us know where we are in relation to the full physical manifestation of what we are wanting.
So what is required for what we have created through our desire, to physically manifest?
That’s the third and final step of the creation process.
For anything we are wanting to physically manifest in our life, we need to find a way to vibrationally align with our desire.
Remember, the Law of Attraction responds to our vibration ( thoughts and feelings ) by reflecting back to us in physical manifestations that which we have focused on and emitted vibrationally. To achieve the manifestation of anything we are wanting, we must find, achieve, and maintain the vibrational frequency of it.
And how do we do that?
We pay attention to how we are feeling, for this is communication from the Non-Physical, Inner Being part of us letting us know where we are in relation to all that we are desiring and have already created. ( the creation of it, took place when you first desired it purely, without thoughts of doubt and lack )
So if we are feeling strong negative emotion, ( that’s your own resistance to what you are wanting turning up so you can improve your vibration and come more into alignment!!) We can know for sure we are vibrationally a long way from a physical manifestation we are wanting, but instead are moving towards a manifestation that we won’t be too happy about if it turns up.
Now don’t be worried about every thought you have, it’s much easier to notice how we are feeling, for this always indicates in which direction our thoughts are focused, and we all have the absolute ability to gradually bring ourselves into a better feeling place by moving our thoughts. This I know.
If we are feeling strong positive emotion, we can know for sure we are vibrationally closer to a physical manifestation that will be very pleasing to us when it turns up.
The stronger the emotions are when we give thought to something, the closer we are to a physical manifestation, whether they are positive or negative.
When we have achieved complete vibrational alignment with our desire, the vibrational signal of what we are emitting and what we are wanting, are now the same, and there’s no longer any opposing resistant vibration to prevent what we are wanting from manifesting and being revealed to us in all of its physical wonderfulness!

This is the process of creation!!

1. We have a desire to know the answer to something that had been inspired within us from our own life experiences.
2. The Universe delivers the answer we have desired and the Non-Physical part of us emits the vibration of it to the Physical part of us, letting us know where we are in relation to the manifestation of it, which we feel as our emotions.
3. We pay attention to how we are feeling until we achieve vibrational alignment with our desire ( in this case an answer ) that the Non-Physical part of us is emitting a strong and steady vibrational signal of, that we continue to move to a better feeling place on, ( because we’re aware what it means ) experiencing the full realisation of that which we originally desired!
Oh, that’s just too good for words, don’t you think!
So there is nothing we cannot receive an answer about….But we do need to get into the vibrational vicinity of where the answer is….And we get there by feeling as good as we possibly can and believing in the power of who we are….
It’s the birthright of every human being on this planet to receive that which we have desired through the living of our life!
Not one of us has been left on our own without constant and consistent Inner Guidance….
So pay attention to it, listen to it, and believe it!!
Now is the time to take it….

And so it is….